🎌 13 Essential Questions for Return Travelers to Japan
- Zen Gaijin
- Aug 5, 2025
- 11 min read
Updated: Jan 6
Planning your return to Japan? These insights are for you. Curated reflections and practical wisdom for travelers who’ve already fallen in love with Japan—and are ready to go deeper.

Japan is not just a place we visit. It’s a place we crave to return to—again and again. And we do.
We’ve traveled across the globe and continue to seek out the wonders of the world—but Japan calls us back. A return to Japan isn’t just a repeat trip—it’s a deepening of connection, of memory, of something just beyond words. It’s not just the temples, cuisine, or seasonal beauty. It’s something more profound. Something that is hard to name in English.
In Japanese, it’s Yūgen.
It's that fleeting, ephemeral sense of beauty and depth. The hush of a bamboo grove in the early morning. A camellia petal drifting across a stone path. The pause between one bell chime and the next. Japan gives us moments that linger in our hearts long after we leave. It’s why we return to Japan, time after time.
For those of us who’ve already walked Kyoto’s lanes or stood in awe at Shibuya Crossing, the journey evolves. These 13 questions aren’t about checking boxes. They're for return travelers to Japan—those planning their next visit with fresh eyes and an open heart."
1. When’s the best time to return to Japan?
We've been in Japan during typhoons, snowfall, cherry blossom madness, and humid summer evenings—each season offering distinctly different pleasures. But as repeat travelers, we find ourselves drawn to the quieter transitions: November when the autumn leaves linger on moss-covered temple steps like at Sanzen-in in Ohara, or from May to early June, when the hydrangeas bloom and the rain gives the forests their deepest green.
There's also something magical about December and January—the anticipatory energy as people rush to complete year-end tasks, then the profound hush that settles over everything after New Year's celebrations. The contrast between "frantic-ism" and stillness, between cold streets and steaming oden, captures something essentially Japanese about renewal and rhythm.
These are the moments that feel both unhurried and unforgettable—and each deserves deeper exploration.

2. How much should I budget—and where is it worth splurging?
Japan's reputation as expensive is outdated—the weak yen has made it surprisingly affordable compared to a decade ago. That said, costs vary wildly depending on your choices.
Baseline daily budget for mid-range travelers: ¥15,000-25,000 per person ($100-170 USD) covering business hotel accommodation, local transportation, and good meals. Add ¥10,000-15,000 if you're staying at ryokan or premium hotels.
Where to splurge:
Ryokan experiences - A night at a quality ryokan with private onsen and seasonal kaiseki (¥30,000-60,000 per person) isn't extravagance—it's cultural immersion you can't replicate elsewhere
Regional specialties - Exceptional sushi, Kobe beef, or fugu prepared by masters
Unique transportation - Scenic train routes, chartered boats to remote islands
Craftsmanship - Quality pottery, textiles, or knives directly from artisans
Where to save without sacrifice:
Breakfast - Skip expensive hotel buffets. Japan's chain breakfast restaurants offer outstanding quality at ¥500-800—think grilled fish, rice, miso soup, and coffee at Royal Host or Gusto. We've written a complete guide to early breakfast options that deliver authentic Japanese morning meals without the markup.
Lunch - Set meals (teishoku) at local restaurants: ¥800-1,200
Accommodation in cities - Business hotels are clean, efficient, well-located: ¥6,000-10,000/night
Transportation - Regional rail passes instead of the now-over-priced JR Pass; local buses in rural areas
The real cost drivers: Accommodation choices and inter-city transportation matter most. A couple spending 12 days in Tohoku, mixing business hotels (¥8,000/night) with one ryokan splurge (¥40,000/person), using rental cars and regional trains, eating at local spots with occasional nice dinners, might budget ¥250,000-350,000 total ($1,700-2,400 USD) excluding flights.
The key is knowing where money enhances experience (ryokan, artisan goods, regional specialties) versus where it doesn't (business hotels work fine, chain breakfast spots rival expensive hotel buffets in quality and authenticity).
3. How long should I stay—and should I slow down?
If your life allows, we suggest you allocate at least two weeks to allow for an in-depth immersion in a select few venues and experiences. Frankly, three weeks is even better (although we appreciate the longer trip runs up the bill for kenneling the dogs at home).
The temptation to pack every prefecture into a 10-day itinerary fades quickly after your first trip. These days, we often choose one region and stay for several days, letting rhythm replace checklist. On our recent two-week journey through Tohoku, this slower pace revealed autumn festivals, hidden onsen towns, and local encounters that would have been impossible on a rushed multi-region tour. A few extra nights in a small town can lead to conversations, discoveries, new friendships and a variety of quiet joys that no guidebook can predict.
4. How should I get around this time?
We used to swear by the Japan Rail Pass (covering all of Japan)—and for first-timers, it might still be valuable. But with JR Pass prices up 70%, we've discovered better alternatives that often cost less and offer more authentic experiences.
Renting a car has become our preferred choice for regional exploration. On recent trips through Tohoku and Shikoku, having a car unlocked destinations simply unreachable by public transportation—remote onsen villages, coastal viewpoints, mountain shrines, and local festivals in tiny towns. More importantly, we traveled on our own schedule: lingering at a pottery workshop for an extra hour, stopping spontaneously at a Michi-no-Eki, departing when we wanted rather than when the bus schedule dictated.
For urban areas and major routes, regional rail passes offer excellent value—the JR Kansai Hiroshima Area Pass, for instance, provides considerable savings in western Japan. And don't overlook local buses and coastal trains; some rural train lines feel more like moving galleries than transportation, offering views no highway can match.
Getting around is no longer just a way to reach a destination—let it be part of your story.
5. Can I connect meaningfully in rural Japan without speaking Japanese?
Absolutely—and translation apps have made it easier than ever. Google Translate, Papago, and DeepL knock down language barriers, speed communication, and often trigger welcoming smiles from locals delighted to bridge the gap with technology.
But our most meaningful connections have come from simply showing up and being present. At Kochi's Hirome Market, we sat at communal tables among locals enjoying their evening meals. Despite our limited Japanese, friendly diners initiated conversations, recommended the best food stalls, shared their sake, and insisted we try regional specialties we'd never have discovered alone. Night after night, those spontaneous encounters turned dinner into cultural immersion—all sparked by proximity and openness.
Some of our most memorable moments have come from non-verbal connections in countryside inns or neighborhood cafés. A bow and a sincere smile can go a long way. Over time, we've learned to appreciate not knowing every word. It creates space for humility, curiosity, and often, unexpected kindness.
6. Where are Japan's "hidden gems"—and how do I find cultural experiences in rural Japan?
The term "hidden gem" gets overused—but that doesn't mean they don't exist. You won't find them by Googling "best places in Japan." You find them by venturing into rural regions where cultural traditions remain undiluted by tourism, by following local recommendations, by staying an extra night in a small town, by choosing the side road instead of the highway.
Rural Japan is where authentic cultural experiences still flourish: artisan workshops practicing centuries-old crafts, seasonal festivals celebrated by communities rather than performed for tourists, family-run ryokan where hospitality follows tradition rather than TripAdvisor reviews, local izakaya where regulars gather and visitors become temporary neighbors.
Robert Frost had it right: the road not taken is often the one that produces the most startling surprises. For us, it was the 2km camellia walk behind Tokoji Temple in Hagi, especially in February when blooms peak. It was the climb to Kinpo-jinja in Tohoku, discovered through a local's recommendation—a silent ascent on moss-covered stones through soaring cedar forest so tall you cannot see the treetops, where you become a tiny speck on nature's vast canvas, discovering a hidden shrine that felt like a secret whispered only to those willing to climb. It was standing alone at a coastal shrine in Nagato with waves crashing below. It was walking through Shimoda Park on the Izu Peninsula and viewing the three million blooming hydrangeas.
In regions like Tohoku, Shikoku, rural Kyushu, and the San'in coast, these moments aren't rare exceptions—they're the daily rhythm of travel. The cultural depth rivals Kyoto's, but you experience it without crowds, without performance, without the layer of tourism that can sometimes obscure authenticity.
These moments don't appear in guidebooks. They reward patience, curiosity, regional exploration, and trust in serendipity.

7. What cultural cues did I miss the first time?
There's the etiquette most travelers learn quickly—shoes off, no tipping, queue politely. These are the mechanics, easily mastered.
But return visits reveal Japan's true complexity: the unspoken language that governs everything beneath the surface. You begin noticing how a shopkeeper's "irasshaimase" shifts from rote greeting to genuine welcome when they recognize you from yesterday. How "chotto..." followed by a thoughtful pause is actually a gentle "no" designed to preserve your dignity and theirs. How silence in meetings carries meaning—who speaks, when they speak, and crucially, who doesn't speak but whose subtle nod grants permission.
You start reading the micro-negotiations of space: the angle of a bow conveying precise social distance, the careful choreography of not inconveniencing others even when you have the right of way, the way groups navigate crowded streets through collective awareness rather than individual assertion.
This deeper literacy can't be rushed. It emerges from patient observation, from making mistakes and noticing what went unspoken, from watching how Japanese families interact at a Michi-no-Eki or how regulars behave at a neighborhood izakaya.
The more you return, the more you realize that Japan's greatest lessons aren't taught—they're absorbed through attentiveness to rhythm, space, and the profound dignity of what remains unsaid.
8. Can I eat vegetarian (or halal) more easily now?
Bear in mind that the Japanese diet was largely meatless for 1,200 years before the Meiji Emperor's public consumption of meat in 1872 signaled a cultural shift. So there's a powerful legacy of skilled vegetarian food preparation—shojin ryori (Buddhist temple cuisine) being the most refined expression.
The current reality: Finding vegetarian food in Japan is easier than a decade ago, especially in major cities where awareness has grown. However, it still requires vigilance and determination.
The hidden challenge: Even seemingly vegetarian dishes often contain dashi (fish-based stock), bonito flakes, or other animal products invisible to the untrained eye. A bowl of miso soup, vegetable tempura, or seemingly simple noodles may not be vegetarian by strict standards. If you're flexible about dashi, options expand considerably. If not, you'll need to ask specifically: "dashi mo dame desu" (no dashi either).
Where vegetarians thrive:
Temple restaurants (shojin ryori) - Exquisite Buddhist vegetarian cuisine, though often expensive and requiring reservations
Macrobiotic cafés - Growing presence in cities like Tokyo, Kyoto, Osaka
Indian restaurants - Abundant in urban areas, reliably vegetarian-friendly
Izakaya - Order carefully: edamame, agedashi tofu (check dashi), grilled vegetables, rice dishes
Helpful resources:
HappyCow Japan - Community-reviewed vegetarian and vegan restaurants
Google Maps with "vegetarian" or "vegan" search in Japanese: ベジタリアン or ビーガン
Hotel concierges - Can call ahead to restaurants to explain dietary needs
For halal travelers: The situation is more challenging. Halal certification is growing but still limited outside major tourist areas. Tokyo, Kyoto, and Osaka have dedicated halal restaurants (often Turkish, Indian, or Malaysian), and some chain restaurants now offer halal options. Resources like Halal Gourmet Japan and Halal Navi provide updated listings. Rural Japan remains difficult for halal observance.
Pro tip: Learn to say your dietary restrictions in Japanese and write them on a card to show servers. "Watashi wa bejitarian desu. Niku, sakana, dashi mo tabemasen" (I'm vegetarian. I don't eat meat, fish, or dashi either). Many restaurants will try to accommodate once they understand.
9. What previously unsampled food should I try?
Japan is defined by micro-cuisines. This is a good time to do some research on the unique delicacies native to the locales you plan to visit. On our early trips when our palate was more naive, we focused on sushi, ramen, and okonomiyaki. Now, we seek out and savor the distinctive, local dishes.
In Tohoku alone, the diversity is staggering: gyutan (beef tongue) in Sendai, where the char and seasoning elevate what sounds mundane into something revelatory. Wanko Soba in Iwate, where servers gleefully refill your bowl until you surrender. Kiritanpo in Akita—pounded rice molded onto cedar skewers, grilled until crispy, then simmered in chicken broth. Kitakata ramen in Fukushima, distinct from its Tokyo cousin. Imoni in Yamagata, a taro root stew that becomes a communal autumn ritual.
Beyond Tohoku: seasonal wagashi in a Kyoto tea shop, each piece reflecting the season through shape and flavor. Fugu prepared with ceremonial precision in Yamaguchi. Even the perfect soft-boiled egg at a roadside konbini, its jammy yolk achieving a consistency that seems impossible for mass production.
One quiet afternoon in Kagawa, we sat beneath fluttering noren and slurped Sanuki udon—chewy, resilient noodles perfected through centuries-old techniques. This wasn't just lunch—it was a testament to regional pride and generational craftsmanship.
Every prefecture guards its culinary identity fiercely. Return visits give you time to explore them slowly, one dish at a time. Ask locals what you should try—their pride in regional cuisine guarantees enthusiastic recommendations.
10. Are Japan’s convenience stores really worth the fuss?
Absolutely—and they get better the more you know what to look for. This is not your mother's 7-11 in Des Moines. We now have fierce loyalties (Team Lawson, for the record), and seasonal konbini food has become a kind of obsession. It’s not just about what’s convenient—it’s about how Japanese design and hospitality show up in the smallest places.
11. What apps are most useful for return visitors?
Beyond Google Maps and translation apps, return visitors benefit from diving into Japan's own digital ecosystem—the tools locals actually use.
For restaurants: Tabelog and Gurunavi are Japan's trusted review platforms, offering deeper local insight than Western apps. Tabelog's ratings are notoriously stringent (a 3.5 is exceptional), and both platforms surface neighborhood gems that cater to Japanese diners rather than tourists. The interfaces are increasingly English-friendly, though Google Translate's camera function helps navigate the rest.
For transportation: The GO taxi app has become essential for us—it works across more Japanese cities than Uber and integrates seamlessly with local taxi companies. In places like Sendai, Kochi, or rural areas where Uber barely exists, GO connects you with available cabs, shows real-time pricing, and handles payment through the app. No need to explain destinations in Japanese or fumble with cash in the backseat.
For payments: Rakuten Pay has become invaluable in rural areas where credit cards still aren't universally accepted. Once set up with a Japanese credit card or through certain international cards, it works at countless small shops, restaurants, and even some temple donation boxes—reducing the cash you need to carry.
Pro tip: Strike up conversations with other travelers at izakaya or hotel bars. We've discovered our best app recommendations this way—from hyperlocal weather radars to regional bus navigation tools that don't appear in English-language travel guides.
We still carry pocket Wi-Fi instead of eSIM—the reliability and device-sharing capability outweigh the slight inconvenience for us, especially when traveling as a couple.
Our complete digital toolkit for Japan—including the weather apps that saved us from sudden downpours, hiking tools for mountain trails, and regional transport planners that unlocked rural access—deserves its own dedicated guide. (Coming soon!)
12. Is it safe to go off on my own?
Without hesitation: yes. We’ve split up on trips to follow separate curiosities and never felt unsafe. Solo train journeys, shrine hikes, or entire solo trips to places like Iki Island or Beppu have been deeply rewarding. If you’re ready for solitude and reflection, Japan will meet you there—with grace and a strong sense of security.
13. Can I go cashless now—or is yen still king?
During COVID, when people resisted handling money, the norms for economic transactions changed dramatically. Now in cities, we rarely need cash. But we still carry some—because many of our favorite places, like countryside cafés or tiny sentō baths, don’t take cards. And honestly? There’s something satisfying about that quiet pause at the register, the coin tray, the nod. Japan still honors the analog in ways that keep us feeling surprisingly human.

🌾 A Return to Japan, A Return to Wonder
Japan holds more than history, beauty, and exquisite food. It holds something we have found nowhere else in the world—a way of being in the world that feels both mysterious and grounded. Yūgen is not a tourist attraction; it's the ephemeral, mysterious beauty of the Japanese experience.
One returns to Japan not just to see more—but to feel more.
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